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'Having a clear conversation will lead to a more pleasurable experience, and doesn’t ruin the mood,' says Bradbury.

Don't let your fears stand in the way of sexual gratification! These are unprecedented times with no clear end to lockdown in sight, so now is the time to familiarise yourself with cyber sex and point that webcam in the direction of you bed.īut what's the first step to getting laid over the digital airwaves? Once you've found someone you're keen to experiment with, simply have a chat about it. Getting up close and personal with a lover is scary enough in the real world, but add a webcam into the mix and it's perfectly normal to experience stage fright. If you're new to the world of virtual sex you may find it daunting. 'Use your intuition on someone’s trustworthiness, and know that you can’t eliminate risk whenever exploring intimacy either virtually - or in real life.' What if you’re nervous about virtual sex? 'Everyone’s comfort level is going to be different, so be clear about your expectations and boundaries,' adds Bradbury. In short, trust your instincts and be honest about how you feel before you get busy on video. 'Establish a baseline of trust and connection, and only share information or content that you feel comfortable with,' she adds. 'Whenever you’re having a conversation with a new person, it’s important to be mindful of the personal information you share, whether that’s identifying information or sexual images or videos,' advises Bradbury. 'Virtual sex doesn’t necessarily have to include video or photos, but could be an erotic conversation on the phone or through messages.' What more excuses do you need to fire up your laptop? 'Virtual sex is an erotic exchange between two or more people on a digital platform, whether that’s a video call, Snapchat, phone conversation, or could even be sexting over texts,' explains Bradbury. Thanks to the dawn of technology you can enjoy seriously steamy sexual and emotional encounters from the safety of your own phone. In fact, a recent study carried out by the University of Indiana Bloomington Kinsey Institute found that technology can facilitate sexual and emotional interactions. Gone are the days of meeting strangers in dive bars for kicks and virtual sex has taken over.

#VIRTUAL SEX HOW TO#

To help you get the best from virtual sex we spoke to sex, love, and empowerment coach Lorrae Bradbury about how to safely utilise technology to transform your lockdown into a cyber sex party: What exactly is virtual sex?